Som jag n?mnde innan jag f?r fr?gor om att arbeta p? Sicilien och ocks? om?att vara?en entrepren?r. Vissa tror ju att jag ?r ansluten med n?gra familjer h?r. Om du studerar deras regler f?r att?vara medlem i?en familj, f?rst?r du ganska snabbt att det inte ?r m?jligt f?r en svensk finsk kvinna att ha n?got att g?ra med dem. Och andra organiserad brottslighet g?ngen ?r inte omr?den jag ?r intresserad av (<---l?ses med ironi). Vad jag kan s?ga ?r att maffian inte ?r mer ?n den organiserade brottsligheten i ett annat land. Italiens problem kan inte bara skyllas p? dem, som?sagt ?r det bra att f? ett grepp om familje strukturen, kyrkan...men det ?r en annan inl?gg. Bilden av Sicilien som skrivs i tidningar ?r inte den ?n jag k?nner till, men jag antar att ?ven dessa skriverier har en mening. Om du vill ha en utmaning i ditt liv, f?rs?k arbeta p? n?gon annan plats olik din. Synen p? denna v?rld kommer att f?r?ndras. Att ansluta dina erfarenheter och kultur med en v?rld s? totalt annorlunda ?n din. Det ?r fantastiskt att vara f?dd och uppvuxen i Sverige, men att ta allt detta?utomlands ?r ?nnu b?ttre. Det Sverige jag minns ?r n?r du fortfarande kunde l?mna din d?rr ol?st f?r ett snabbt ?rende. De?tiderna ?r f?rbi. N?r jag best?mde mig att st? p? mina egna 2009 och sluta arbeta f?r?ett siciliansk f?retag de sa till mig att jag kommer att klara?h?gst sex m?nader och s??flyttar jag h?rifr?n. F?rst p? grund av alla k?nda problem och eftersom jag ?r en kvinna (= jag skulle bli trakasserad till d?ds). Tja, om du tittar fr?n en sicilianares synvinkel kan det vara s?, men jag m?rkte snabbt att allt beror p? din egen inst?llning. Den f?rsta leverant?ren jag b?rjade arbeta med l?rde mig mycket snabb och tydligt allt om Sicilien, men l?tit mig uppleva allt sj?lv. Han ?r en av de personer i mitt liv jag alltid kommer att vara f?r evigt tacksam till. Grazie Vittorio! Idag arbetar jag ocks? med en annan fantastisk m?nniska som har samma start upplevelser i Sicilien. Sammanfattning: Jag har bra m?nniskor omkring mig. Jag t?nker inte?s?ga hur jag gjorde det. De styrkor jag har ?r bra Magk?nsla + Slicka ett finger och k?nna av?luften. Vad jag kan s?ga ?r att ?rlighet alltid l?nar sig och inte ha f?r br?ttom. Respektera alltid din nya omgivning, men inte acceptera allt. Jag beklagar f?r att kontaktat mina egna landsm?n f?r fort, alla har sina egna erfarenheter och det ?r l?tt att f?rlora din. Jag lyssnar inte s? mycket?p? andra m?nniskor som inte k?nner mig och vill ge r?d utan att ha bett om dem. P? Sicilien m?ste du att arbeta h?rt och sj?lv. Ingen kommer att ge saker till dig gratis. V?rlden fungerar s? h?r, allt annat ?r naivt. Det finns b?ttre och s?mre l?nder, det beror p? social konstruktion i varje land. Allt beror ocks? p? din vilja att l?ra och g?ra saker. Det finns inga dumma m?nniskor, det finns bara en brist p? kunnande. Varje dag p? Sicilien l?r jag mig nya saker. P? Sicilien tr?ffar jag m?nniskor fr?n alla m?jliga l?nder, det ?r en f?rgglad ? trots vad som visas ut. Min v?rld har f?r?ndrats och kommer att h?lla p? att ?ndras…ingen sa det skulle vara l?tt…

Allt enligt?mina personliga erfarenheter

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Eng: As I’ve mentioned before I get questions about working in Sicily and also about beeing an entrepreneur. Some think of course that I’m connected with some families here. Well, if you study their rules to enter a family of theirs you understand quite fast that is not possible for a swede finnish?woman to have anything to do with them. And the other organised crime gangs ain’t just sectors I’m interested of (<--- read with irony). What I can say is that Mafia ain't more than organized crime in another country. Italys problems can't just be blaimed on this, as saying?this?it's good to get a grip of the family structure, church...but it's another post. The picture of Sicily written in news papers isn't the island I know, but I guess also those?things have?a meaning. If you want a challange in your life, try to work in some other place so different from yours.?The view of?this world will change. First to connect your experiences and culture with a world so totally different from?yours. It's fantastic to be born and brought up in Sweden, but to take all that abroad is even better. The Sweden I remember is when you could still leave your door un locked for a quick errand. Those times ain't no more. When I decided to stand on my own 2009 and stop working for a sicilian company they said to me that I will last maximum six month and then I’m out of here.?First because of all the famous problems and because I’m a woman (= I would be harrassed to death). Well, if you look from a sicilians point of view, it can be like that, but I noticed very fast that it all depends on your own attitude. The first supplier I started to work with teached me very fast and clear all about Sicily, but still let me experience all by myself. He is one of the persons in my life I will always be for ever thankful to. Grazie Vittorio! Today I also work with another fantastic person who have the same start experiences in Sicily. Summary: I have good people around me. I’m not going to?write how I made it. The strengths I have is good Gut Feeling +?Lick a finger and feel the air. What I can say is that honesty always pays and not having too much of a hurry. Always respect your new surroundings, but not accept everything. I regret for contacting?my own countrymen too fast, everyone has their own experiences and it’s easy to loose yours. I don’t listen too much to other people who doesn’t know?me and want to give advices without having asked for them. In Sicily you have to work hard and by yourself. No one is going to give things to you for free.?World works like this, everything else is being naive. There are better and worse countries, it all depends on social construction in every country. All also depends on your willing to learn and do things. There are no stupid people, there are just a lack of know how. Every day in Sicily?I learn new things. In Sicily I meet people from all kinds of countries, it a colorful island dispite what is shown out. My world has changed and will keep on changing…noone said it would be easy…

All according to my personal experiences